The Sex Lives of African Women

Many of the women who tell their stories in this collection recall the journeys they have travelled in order to own their own sexualities. They do this by grappling with experiences of child sexual abuse, resisting the religious edicts of their childhood, and by asserting their sexual power. 

From finding queer community in Egypt to living a polyamorous life in Senegal to understanding the intersectionality of religion and pleasure in Cameroon to choosing to leave relationships that no longer serve them, these narratives are as individual and illuminating as the women who share them. 

The Sex Lives of African Women provides a deep insight into women’s quest for freedom, highlights the complex tapestry of African women’s sexuality, and bestows upon all women inspirational examples to live a truly liberated life. 

What readers are saying about The Sex Lives of African Women: 

‘Extraordinarily dynamic… A book like none you will have readbefore… Documents and legitimises the desires and sexuality of African women, beyond every conceivable stereotype… With sensitivity, this book has facilitated astonishing breaking of silences.’ The Guardian 

‘A beautiful, delicate and sometimes brutal exploration of African Womanhood and sexuality, honest and moving. A vital treasure.’ Bolu Babalola, author of Love in Colour 

‘Such a beautiful read, like chatting to a friend over a cuppa. This is the intimate, insightful read that I didn’t know I needed. Just brilliant.’ Dorothy Koomson, author 

‘A boundary-breaking, fascinating and deeply affirming set of accounts that emphasises the necessity of allowing African women to tell the stories of their sexuality on their own terms.’ Otegha Uwagba, writer and speaker 

‘A captivating diasporic work of sensual geographies. Teeming with freedom and agency. Utterly triumphant.’ Irenosen Okojie, author and playwright 

‘I just didn’t want it to end. Each and every story is unique, powerful… A global, ambitious collection that hums with the author’s lovefor the subject and her interviewees.’ Goodreads Reviewer ?????